How to meet women and ALWAYS have a way to start the conversation

We’ve all been there. Most of us have been there hundreds of times. You learn how to meet women, then you go about your daily life and see a girl. You weren’t expecting to meet girls then and so are not in a social head space, and you’re first though is “But I don’t know what to say”. You have a split second of panic. Your palms start to sweat. Aaaaaaaaaaannd you miss the opportunity. And you didn’t even try to talk to her. All because you didn’t know what to say.

How do we wish to be something like the guy abovce in the picture? If you can already do it, this artilce is not for you. But if you want to be like that guy in the picture, you can! This is not something uncommon (this fear of talking to women). I guarantee every guy reading this has been there.

And the problem of this is that it leads to so many missed opportunities. Every one of those hot girls could have turned into a lover, a hook up, a one night stand, a girlfriend, or maybe even a wife. Stop reading this and think about that for one moment. This of those missed opportunities. Notice how that makes you feel.

Bet you feel kind of shit now

Let that feeling fuel you next time you see a hot girl and want to meet her. Realise that if you don’t meet her then, you will probably never see her again. She is about to walk about of your life forever.

Really think about that.

Why am I really emphasising to think about this? Because you never know when you are going to meet a girl who is right for you (and indeed, you are right for her). Most people don’t meet their dream girl in a club. You might notice her in the supermarket, or the bookstore. She might walk past on the street, or be waiting at the bus stop. Or at the dentist. Or at the iron mongers (ok, probably not.). Or maybe you do see her at a club or a bar. You never know where you’ll see a jaw droppingly beautiful girl. But wherever you see her, you have to go and meet her. If you don’t go an talk to her then and there, she’ll probably walk out of your life forever. Never to be seen again. You want to know how to get a girl? It starts with meeting her.

How to meet women

The truth is that you can start a conversation with a girl by saying anything. Ask a clever question, make a comment, wink at her, spill a drink on her, anything.

But if you’re reading this article, it’s because you aren’t starting conversations because you can’t think of something to say. So the first piece of advice to keep in mind while learning how to get a girl, is that you can say anything to start a conversation. So please never think that you “don’t know what to say”, but saying anything can work. No excuses not to meet her.

How to always have something to say

However, for most guys just starting out learning to meet chicks, this piece of advice is rarely enough. They still pause, second guess themselves, and then miss the moment and don’t go and meet that pretty brunette in the dog food isle in Costco. And then once again, the opportunity is lost.

So while I really want you to internalise that you can successfully start a conversation with anything, to get around the problem of that mental mind block causing you to miss opportunities, I recommend having one single standard way to start a conversation. I recommend having just one. Not two. Not five. Just one. This stops the problem of you forgetting what your line is. It also stops you overanalysing whether your line is the right line for the situation. So just have one line.

I recommend the following line for one that will work brilliantly:

“Hi, I know this is kinda random, but I thought you were really cute and wanted to meet you”.

Remember the goal, the purpose of your opening line is simply to get into a conversation. Nothing more, nothing less. Don’t overcomplicate this, as saying anything will work. You can say anything to open a conversation. But this is the line I use to stop missing opportunities. This is how I protect against not having something to say.

So do this now: make a single line that you can use to start a conversation. Just one. Make it simple, honest, and confident. Remember: 

SIMPLE

HONEST
CONFIDENT

And then start approaching the honeys, stop missing opportunities, and start living.

Good luck.