3 Changes to get a Girl

So the question is: What does it take to get a girl? I am sure there must be changes that I need to do with myself? 
Well...yes you are right...take a good look at the mirror. But before you start to analyse yourself, I would be happy to present a list to you to check out for your conveneice! 

The following are common things guys need to work on to get a girl. Interestingly, just doing these 3 things well, will make you over 440% more effective at meeting the hottest, most intelligent, sexiest women. And that is a real statistic.

1. Eye contact and facial expression

 

Everyone has heard that you need to keep good eye contact. However few people know what this actually means. There are lots of different types of eye contact, only some of which are attractive. You will look at a hot girl differently to how you would look at your gran… at least, I really hope you would.
I’ll cover the different expressions which are more or less attractive another time, but there is one absolutly killer expression which is the most commonly unpractised by guys still improving with women.
This is the “sexual look”. This is a slight smirk (but good natured), a half smile, combined with very strong eye contact. Watch the film Top Gun – when Tom Cruise is leaning against the wall staring at Kelly Mcgillis at her house, it’s that look. It’s a look that says “I know you want me, but you can’t quite have me yet!”. Blink less. Make your movements slow, like you are underwater. In this expression, it is almost a staring competition. And when you do blink, blink s-l-o-w-l-y. (note – use common sense, this will be creepy if it is held forever. Hold it until it *just* becomes uncomfortable, then break it off). Get a mirror and make sure you can make this expression. Stare yourself down in the mirror. Play around with this and see how it makes an interaction sexual. Buy Top Gun and watch it several times.

2. Leading

If you learn to lead, you will be a great ladies man. Seriously, it’s that simple. Just learning this would make you great. So what is leading, and how do you learn it? Well for once I don’t have a book to reccomend for this. Leading is exactly what you think it is – you deciding to do something, and convincing other people to go along with what you decided (easy right?). How do you learn it? Start by becoming certain. Be certain of yourself. Become certain in your desisions and your opinions. Don’t doubt yourself. Second, learn to decided quickly, and stick with your own desisions. Voice your decisions quickly. Thirdly, convince other people your way is the best choice FOR THEM. Be certain in this. And lastly, be prepared to do your decision on your own if no-one or only a few people follow you.

3. Taking Chances

 

Actually this is very similar to point 2, as taking chances could be argued to be a form of leading. But who gives a fuck if it can be argued philosophically? Dating does, and always will, have an element of a numbers game to it. Anyone who tells you differently is trying to sell you something. It is impossible to get every girl, and therefore there will always be an element of a numbers game involved in dating. That this works for both sexes too. Even Megan Fox can’t get every guy. Doesn’t that make you feel better about yourself! Therefore, because it will always be a nubers game, you will have to take chances in approaching lots of girls, to find the girls that are intersted in you. You have to take chances in going for the phone number. You have to take chances introducing yourself to her friends. You have to take chances inviting her out. You have to take chances going for a kiss. You have to take chances taking her home. You have to take chances trying to take her clothes off. You are the man, and therefore YOU have to lead. And this means taking the chance, even if it means getting rejected. That is the nature of the game. There are loads of ways to tip the odds of  in your favour, but in the end you’re still taking a chance. But taking that chance might well lead to gloryous times.

And lets be honest – not taking that chance, means you go home kicking yourself for the next 3 weeks. Rejection hurts very little. Regret hurts very much.

Do these 3 things, you will skyrocket your success with the hottest women. THIS is how to get a girl. Don’t do these things, and you stay lonely and celibate. Your choice. Oh and by the way, 440% is obviously not a real statistic
 Enjoy your day.