The Casual Vacancy by J.K. Rowling

E-Book readers! Here is something for you to consider adding to your virtual shelves! J.K Rowling, author of the famous Harry Potter series has finally come up with a book for adults!


Within hours of the book's release, it had reached the Number 1 position on the Amazon Book Chart in the United States, while William Hill suspected that the novel would outsell Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, which was released in 2007 and sold over 2.6 million copies in Britain alone during its first day of sales. In reality, the novel sold 125,000 (124,603 actual) copies in its first week. It was the biggest opening in the United Kingdom since Dan Brown's 2009 novel, The Lost Symbol, which sold 550,946 copies. It also fell short of Rowling's last release, the final Harry Potter book which went on to sell 2.6 million copies in its first day.(from Wikipedia)

When Barry Fairbrother dies unexpectedly in his early forties, the little town of Pagford is left in shock. Pagford is, seemingly, an English idyll, with a cobbled market square and an ancient abbey, but what lies behind the pretty façade is a town at war. Rich at war with poor, teenagers at war with their parents, wives at war with their husbands, teachers at war with their pupils…. Pagford is not what it first seems. And the empty seat left by Barry on the town’s council soon becomes the catalyst for the biggest war the town has yet seen. Who will triumph in an election fraught with passion, duplicity and unexpected revelations? Blackly comic, thought-provoking and constantly surprising, The Casual Vacancy is J.K. Rowling’s first novel for adults.

Review:

Praise for THE CASUAL VACANCY:

"I had come under the spell of a great novel....A big, ambitious, brilliant, profane, funny, deeply upsetting and magnificently eloquent novel of contemporary England, rich with literary intelligence....This is a deeply moving book by somebody who understands both human beings and novels very, very deeply." (Time Lev Grossman )

"A vivid read with great, memorable characters and a truly emotional payoff....Rowling captures the humanity in everyone, even if that humanity is not always a pretty sight." (People )

"This book represents a truckload of shrewdness.... There were sentences I underlined for the sheer purpose of figuring out how English words could be combined so delightfully....genuinely moving." (Washington Post )

"A positively propulsive read." (Wall Street Journal )

"An insanely compelling page-turner....The Casual Vacancy is a comedy, but a comedy of the blackest sort, etched with acid and drawn with pitch....Rowling proves ever dexterous at launching multiple plot lines that roar along simultaneously, never entangling them except when she means to. She did not become the world's bestselling author by accident. She knows down in her bones how to make you keep turning the pages." (The Daily Beast )

"There are plenty of pleasures to be had in The Casual Vacancy....Parts of the story would be tonally of a piece with any Richard Price or Dennis Lehane novel, or an episode of The Wire." (Parade )

"Rowling knows how to write a twisty, involving plot....She is clearly a skilled writer." (The Huffington Post )

"The Casual Vacancy is a complete joy to read....a stunning, brilliant, outrageously gripping and entertaining evocation of British society today." (The Mirror (UK) )

"Rowling has written a grand novel...a very brave book." (The Bookseller (UK) )

"A study of provincial life, with a large cast and multiple, interlocking plots, drawing inspiration from Elizabeth Gaskell and George Eliot...The Casual Vacancy immerses the reader in a richly peopled, densely imagined world...intelligent, workmanlike, and often funny." (The Guardian (UK) )

"The Casual Vacancy, JK Rowling's first adult novel, is sometimes funny, often startlingly well observed....Jane Austen herself would admire the way [Rowling] shows the news of Barry's death spreading like a virus round Pagford." (Telegraph (UK) )

About the Author

J.K. Rowling is the author of the bestselling Harry Potter series of seven books, published between 1997 and 2007, which have sold more than 450 million copies worldwide, are distributed in more than 200 territories, translated into 74 languages, and have been turned into eight blockbuster films. She has also written two small volumes, which appear as the titles of Harry’s schoolbooks within the novels. Fantastic Beasts & Where to Find Them and Quidditch Through The Ages were published by Scholastic Bloomsbury Children’s Books in March 2001 in aid of Comic Relief. In December 2008, The Tales of Beedle the Bard was published in aid of the Children’s High Level Group, and quickly became the fastest selling book of the year.
As well as an OBE for services to children’s literature, J.K. Rowling is the recipient of numerous awards and honorary degrees including the Prince of Asturias Award for Concord, France’s Légion d’honneur, and the Hans Christian Andersen Literature Award, and she has been a Commencement Speaker at Harvard University. She supports a wide number of charitable causes through her charitable trust Volant, and is the founder of Lumos, a charity working to transform the lives of disadvantaged children.

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Oppa Gangnam Style!

Lately Gangnam Style style has been hitting the charts! Everybody loves that Korean dude, looking so cool and with such swanky moves! Even he had the old folks going "oomph oomph oppa gangnam style" in their walking sticks! The guys are getting grooves with the dance and ladies looking real sexy when they move to the tune! 

Well Jars of olive oil decided to take a look at some back ground of the song.
Here are the lyrics for your benefit, enjoy:

Gangnam is Style
Gangnam style

A girl who is warm and humanle during the day
A classy girl who know how to enjoy the freedom of a cup of coffee
A girl whose heart gets hotter when night comes
A girl with that kind of twist

I’m a guy
A guy who is as warm as you during the day
A guy who one-shots his coffee before it even cools down
A guy whose heart bursts when night comes
That kind of guy

Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Now let’s go until the end

Oppa is Gangnam style, Gangnam style
Oppa is Gangnam style, Gangnam style
Oppa is Gangnam style

Eh- Sexy Lady, Oppa is Gangnam style
Eh- Sexy Lady oh oh oh oh

A girl who looks quiet but plays when she plays
A girl who puts her hair down when the right time comes
A girl who covers herself but is more sexy than a girl who bares it all
A sensable girl like that

I’m a guy
A guy who seems calm but plays when he plays
A guy who goes completely crazy when the right time comes
A guy who has bulging ideas rather than muscles
That kind of guy

Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Now let’s go until the end

Oppa is Gangnam style, Gangnam style
Oppa is Gangnam style, Gangnam style
Oppa is Gangnam style

Eh- Sexy Lady, Oppa is Gangnam style
Eh- Sexy Lady oh oh oh oh

On top of the running man is the flying man, baby baby
I’m a man who knows a thing or two
On top of the running man is the flying man, baby baby
I’m a man who knows a thing or two

You know what I’m saying

Oppa is Gangnam style

Eh- Sexy Lady, Oppa is Gangnam style
Eh- Sexy Lady oh oh oh oh

Romanized:

Oppan gang-namseutayil
Kang-namseutayil

Naje-neun ttasaroun inkanjeo-gin yeoja
Keopi hanjanye yeoyureuraneun pumkyeok i-nneun yeoja
Bami omyeon shimjangi tteugeowojineun yeoja
Keureon banjeon i-nneun yeoja

Naneun sana-i
Naje-neun neomankeum ttasaroun geureon sana-i
Keopi shikgido jeone wonsyas ttaerineun sana-i
Bami omyeon shimjangi teojyeobeorineun sana-i
Keureon sana-i

Areumdawo sarangseureowo
Keurae neo hey keurae baro neo hey

Areumdawo sarangseureowo
Keurae neo hey keurae baro neo hey

Chigeumbu-teo kal dekkaji kabol-kka

Oppan gang-namseutayil

Kang-namseutayil

Oppan gang-namseutayil

Kang-namseutayil

Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady
Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady
O-oo-o

Jeongsu-khae boijiman nol ttaen noneun yeoja
Ittaeda shipeumyeon mukkeot-deon meori puneun yeoja
Karyeot-jiman wen-manhan nochulboda yahan yeoja
Keureon gamkakjeo-gin yeoja

Naneun sana-i
Jeomjanha boijiman nol ttaen noneun sana-i
Ttae-ga dwehmyeon wahnjeon michyeobeorineun sana-i
Keunyukboda sasangi ul-tungbul-tung-han sana-i
Keureon sana-i

Areumdawo sarangseureowo
Keurae neo hey keurae baro neo hey

Areumdawo sarangseureowo
Keurae neo hey keurae baro neo hey

Chigeumbu-teo kal dekkaji kabol-kka

Oppan gang-namseutayil

Kang-namseutayil

Oppan gang-namseutayil

Kang-namseutayil

Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady
Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady
O-oo-o

Ttwiineun nom keu wiie naneun nom
Baby baby
Naneun mwol jom aneun nom

Ttwiineun nom keu wiie naneun nom
Baby baby
Naneun mwol jom aneun nom

You know what i’m saying

Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady
Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady
Oppan gang-namseutayil

Translation Credits: pop!gasa
Romanizations by: kpoplyrics.net
Read more: http://www.kpoplyrics.net/psy-gangnam-style-lyrics-english-romanized.html#ixzz28cuJZcnV
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Okay, now that we are done with the lyrics, here are some interesting info on the song!

Psy‘s “Gangnam Style” music video is going viral on the internet, even being featured on popular social media sites such as Gawker and Reddit which focuses on some of the best content on the web.
Having watched it a number of times, we know that Oppa is “Gangnam Style“, but what exactly does that mean?
Gangnam is a very affluent part of the city of Seoul, located south of the Han River. In fact, ‘Gangnam’ translates into ‘South of the River’, and it also happens to be where the offices of S.M. Entertaniment and JYP Entertainment are located.
This region of Seoul has been compared to Beverly Hills in California and New York City’s trendy Midtown, as Gangnam boasts plenty of high end shopping, dining, and entertainment to keep both tourists and the locals busy.

Once mostly farmland, Gangnam underwent massive changes during the 1960′s as the area north of the Han River began to develop. People quickly started migrating to Gangnam, where farmland was quickly turned into a bustling city.

There’s some debate as to whether the ‘horse dance’ in “Gangnam Style” is a reference to the city’s past agricultural history, or if it’s a means to show just how wealthy the people of Gangnam are now. With the steep prices on land in Korea, only the very rich can afford to own and take care of horses.

In ‘Gangnam Style’, Psy tries to win his ideal woman, who is “warm and human during the day, a classy girl who understands the freedom of having a cup of coffee. A girl whose heart grows hotter as the night approaches, a girl with that kind of twist… A girl who looks quiet but knows how and when to party, a girl who lets her hair down when she feels it is the right time. A girl who covers up but is more sexy than a girl who bares it all, a sensual girl like that.”

Psy tries to convince her to fall for him, by saying that he, too, is warm during the day, but gets ‘hotter’ (later, “goes completely crazy”) at night, a guy that seems calm, but parties when it’s time to do so. He then tries to explain that he’s a smart and exciting guy who “one-shots his coffee before it even cools down,” and who has “bulging ideas rather than muscles.”

Basically, the ‘Gangnam-Style Oppa’ is trying to convince you that he’s rich, fun to be around, and interesting to talk to. Evidenced by the music video, he has definitely accomplished that.

Thanks, All credits for the info goes to this site.

How to get a REALLY HOT girl?

Guys, this is reallllyyyy interesting! Read on to know more....very good piece of article! (Tho I may not agree with the motives [especially for sex] behind this technique but I urge you to learn and make use of it in a responsible way). Learn but please be responsible with this knowledge. Here it is:

I’ve been getting questions asking how to get a really hot girl. In a nutshell, make yourself awesome, and don’t screw anything up. And with this in mind, we’re going to have a look at an area that guy’s commonly mess up with the really hot girls – the “middle bit”.
Have you ever been the following situation: it’s the middle of the first or second date, and you can already feel that girl slipping away from you. Or you might have also felt the same sinking feeling late at night in a bar or club. You met her and she seemed really into you, but as time went on, she seemed less and less interested. You’re not quite sure at what point it started to fizzle out, or what to do to try and save it without seeming weird or creeping her out. The only thing you are sure about is that this date is not currently heading towards a happy ending for either of you.

This is common problem for the grey area of the “middle bit” in-between meeting a girl, and having sex with her. And about 95% of the time, this is your fault. Yeah that’s right, eat those cherries. It’s normally your fault. There are times that the interaction fizzling may be out of your control, and there are times when it may be her fault for it fizzling, but in general this is normally the guy’s fault.
There are three common explanations for an initially good interaction fizzling like this.

1. You have failed to keep up the attraction while you are getting to know her
2. You have not managed to form a connection with her
3. You have gone too long before getting physical, and she has sensed your nervousness about it.

Both of these reasons are you doing something wrong. But actually, this is good news. Because when it is you doing something wrong, you can learn to do it right. Therefore this problem you can fix. Here’s how:

Isolation

For this middle bit, you need to be having a conversation where you can get to know her. In general, you therefore want to be alone with her – so get her alone! Take her on a date, or an instant date. If it is the first night you met her and you want to pull quickly, then try to get her to accompany you to the bar a few feet away from her friends. Just a few feet away is enough that the conversation will stop being between you and her group, and will be you and her. You need her friends not to be listening so you can actually get to know her, and not her “representative”.
Have you noticed the way most people behave differently depending on who they are talking to? Your best mate Dave will probably talk a different way to you, than he would talk to his boss. He would talk to the Queen of England a different way again. And to a famous actress he thought was really attractive, a different way still. I call this Dave’s multiple different representatives. They represent Dave the way he wants to be seen to each of these different people. We all do this to varying degrees. But when you are trying to seduce a girl you don’t want to be dealing with her representative, you want to get through to the real to her. And the best way to get her to dismiss her representatives is to talk to her one on one.

Let your guard down

You can’t connect with someone when you have your own representative doing the talking. If you are trying to make her laugh or impress her, she is not seeing the real you. Stop trying. Stop caring that she might not like certain bits of your personality and of who you are. Tell her about yourself without inhibition. It is pretty counterintuitive that telling a hot girl about both your cool side, and your geeky side, can be more attractive to her, but it’s true. The caveat to this of course, is you need to have worked on yourself so that you actually have a cool side. This is about learning to be your best self. The thought that a total geek with a few clever pickup and hypnosis lines can get really hot chicks is an illusion. It’s a male fantasy. The geeks who get the really hot girls get them because they have both a geeky and a cool side. But it is showing her the different sides of your personality that forms a really quick connection. And an attractive connection, leads to sex.

Give her a wide ranging picture of your life and history

So here’s the thing. Sometimes, you can meet a girl and be having sex in the club bathroom or in an alleyway within 10 minutes. Sometimes you can meet a girl though friends, and just form a super quick, mainly physical attraction to each other, and be tearing each other’s clothes off in half an hour. Sometimes a girl just loves your sense of humour, fashion sense, and confidence, and will be with you you in an hour without even knowing your second name.
These all happen. And more often than you think.
But here’s the problem: most romantic and sexual interactions, do not go like this. These are the exceptions, not the rules. But for many guys learning to be more attractive to the fairer sex, they get confused by these exceptions, and somehow think therefore than a girl doesn’t actually need to know anything about the guy before they can get down and dirty. They think they need to be attractive, and that’s all it takes.
Most of the time, this isn’t how it works (disappointing home truth, isn’t it!). A girl normally needs to know a base amount of things about you before she will sleep with you, and definitely needs to know this base amount of things about you before getting into a relationship with you.
However for me to teach this, quantifying exactly what a girl needs to know about you before she wants to be with you  is impossible, as the things she needs to know is different with every girl. Why? Because it’s all about the vibe she is feeling from you. Trust me, a girl isn’t going through a mental checklist in her mind saying “hmm, he’s really attractive, but he hasn’t told me his sisters middle name yet. I don’t know that much about him. I’m going to hold on for a bit longer before I let him kiss me.” No, no, no, no, no, no… Seriously, girls don’t think like that. But they do think “I don’t feel like I actually know him yet”.
So here is a rough list of what you need to work into the conversation at one point or another so a girl knows you. Like I already said, this isn’t an exact list, as every girl is different. But here is a guide for the things that most girls will need to know before they will be with you:

• Your name
• What’s your job, and do you like your job
• How long you have lived where you currently live. Where you lived before.
• Do you have brothers and sisters, and what are they like
• What do you do in your free time / hobbies / sports
• What’s your relationships with your family like
• What are your friends like
• What were your previous relationships like

Start touching early, keep touching throughout

This is a huge one. If you want to sleep with a girl, you need to get her used to your touch. I have slept with a lot of girls, and I have never been in the situation that I talked her into bed without touching her a shit-ton first.
Remember we are talking about the middle bit of an interaction here – typically you’ve been talking for an hour or two, or you are within the first few dates. So you now need to start prolonging touch. Leave your hand on her leg while your are talking to her. As you are walking gently guide her with your hand on her lower back. Depending on the girl, hold her hand (this one is actually surprisingly high risk – but try it anyway, and if she isn’t in to it, don’t apologise, just carry on as if it didn’t happen). Find reasons to touch her. If she removes your hand or shrugs you off, wait a few minutes, and try again. Don’t make a big deal out of it.

Verbally escalating

It is perfectly possible to take the conversation very sexual without actually verbally escalating. However escalating verbally is a guaranteed way to turn the conversation dirtier. By verbally escalating, I mean telling her that you find her attractive, that you find her sexy, and allowing your talk to get dirtier and dirtier. This can be gold, but can also be too much for some girls. Furthermore, sometimes you don’t need it, and it should never be done in front of her friends. I’m going to cover this in detail in a few weeks, but for now, try dropping in increasingly sexual compliments throughout the date. Start with “You look really sexy tonight”, and going from there.

Artikel Bahasa Melayu: Teknik untuk mendapat girfriend cun!

Guys, ini adalah amat menarik! Teruskan membaca untuk mengetahui lebih lanjut .... sekeping sangat baik artikel! (Meskipun saya mungkin tidak bersetuju dengan motif [terutama untuk seks] di sebalik teknik ini tetapi saya menggesa anda untuk belajar dan menggunakan ia dengan cara yang bertanggungjawab). Belajar tetapi sila bertanggungjawab dengan pengetahuan ini. Di sini adalah artikel berikut:
Saya telah mendapat soalan bertanya bagaimana untuk mendapatkan seorang gadis yang benar-benar panas. Secara ringkas, membuat diri anda hebat, dan tidak skru apa-apa sehingga. Dan dengan ini dalam fikiran, kita pergi untuk melihat di kawasan bahawa lelaki yang biasanya merosakkan dengan gadis-gadis yang benar-benar panas - "sedikit tengah".Pernahkah anda situasi berikut: ia adalah pertengahan tarikh pertama atau kedua, dan anda sudah boleh merasakan gadis itu tergelincir jauh daripada anda. Atau anda mungkin juga merasakan perasaan tenggelam yang sama pada lewat malam di bar atau kelab. Anda bertemu dengan beliau dan dia seolah-olah benar-benar ke dalam anda, tetapi sebagai masa berlalu, dia seolah-olah kurang dan kurang berminat. Anda tidak pasti apa titik ia mula fizzle out, atau apa yang perlu dilakukan untuk mencuba dan menyimpan tanpa seolah-olah pelik atau menjalar keluar. Satunya perkara yang anda pasti tentang bahawa tarikh ini tidak sedang menuju ke arah berakhir bahagia sama ada untuk anda.Ini adalah masalah biasa bagi kawasan kelabu "sedikit tengah" di antara mesyuarat seorang gadis, dan mengadakan seks dengan beliau. Dan kira-kira 95% daripada masa itu, ini adalah kesalahan anda. Ya betul, makan ceri. Ia biasanya salah anda. Terdapat kali bahawa fizzling interaksi mungkin di luar kawalan anda, dan ada kalanya apabila ia mungkin kesalahannya ia fizzling, tetapi secara umum ini biasanya kesalahan lelaki.Terdapat tiga penjelasan biasa bagi interaksi mulanya baik fizzling seperti ini.

1. Anda telah gagal menyaingi tarikan manakala anda mendapat tahu dia
2. Anda telah tidak berjaya untuk membentuk sambungan dengan dia 
3. Anda telah terlalu lama sebelum mendapatkan fizikal, dan dia telah merasakan ketakutan anda tentang ia.

Kedua-dua sebab-sebab ini anda melakukan sesuatu yang salah. Tetapi sebenarnya, ini adalah berita baik. Kerana apabila anda melakukan sesuatu yang salah, anda boleh belajar untuk melakukannya dengan betul. Oleh itu masalah ini anda boleh menetapkan. Begini caranya:PengasinganUntuk sedikit ini tengah, anda perlu mempunyai perbualan di mana anda boleh mendapat tahu beliau. Secara umum, oleh itu anda mahu bersendirian dengan dia - supaya mendapatkan dia sahaja! Ambil beliau pada tarikh, atau suatu tarikh yang segera. Jika ia adalah malam pertama anda bertemu dengan beliau dan anda mahu untuk menarik dengan cepat, kemudian cuba untuk mendapatkan dia untuk menemani anda ke bar beberapa kaki jauh dari rakan-rakannya. Hanya beberapa kaki cukup bahawa perbualan akan berhenti menjadi antara anda dan kumpulan beliau, dan akan anda dan dia. Anda perlu rakan-rakannya tidak mendengar supaya anda sebenarnya boleh mendapat tahu dia, dan bukan "wakil" beliau.

Adakah anda perasan cara kebanyakan orang berkelakuan berbeza bergantung kepada siapa mereka bercakap? Terbaik Dave pasangan anda mungkin akan bercakap cara yang berbeza untuk anda, daripada beliau akan berbincang dengan bosnya. Dia akan bercakap kepada Ratu England cara yang berbeza lagi. Dan kepada pelakon terkenal dia fikir adalah benar-benar menarik, cara yang berbeza masih. Saya panggil wakil pelbagai berbeza ini Dave. Mereka mewakili Dave cara dia mahu dilihat kepada setiap orang-orang yang berbeza. Kita semua melakukan ini kepada darjah yang berbeza-beza. Tetapi apabila anda cuba untuk menggoda seorang gadis anda tidak mahu berurusan dengan wakil beliau, anda mahu untuk mendapatkan melalui sebenar kepada beliau. Dan cara terbaik untuk mendapatkan beliau untuk menolak wakil beliau adalah untuk bercakap kepada satu beliau pada satu.LekaAnda tidak boleh menyambung dengan seseorang apabila anda mempunyai wakil anda sendiri melakukan bercakap. Jika anda cuba untuk membuat ketawa atau menarik perhatian dia, dia tidak melihat sebenar anda. Berhenti mencuba. Hentikan penyayang bahawa dia mungkin tidak suka bit tertentu personaliti anda dan siapa anda. 
Beritahu dia tentang diri anda tanpa perencatan. Ia adalah agak bertentang yang memberitahu seorang gadis panas mengenai kedua-dua sejuk anda, dan sebelah geeky anda, boleh menjadi lebih menarik kepada beliau, tetapi ia adalah benar. Kaveat ini sudah tentu, adalah anda perlu bekerja pada diri sendiri supaya anda sebenarnya mempunyai sampingan yang sejuk. Ini adalah mengenai belajar untuk menjadi diri anda yang terbaik. Pemikiran bahawa jumlah seorang pakar dengan beberapa pikap bijak dan garis hipnosis boleh mendapatkan anak-anak ayam yang benar-benar panas adalah ilusi. Ia adalah fantasi lelaki. Geeks yang mendapat gadis-gadis yang benar-benar panas mendapatkan mereka kerana mereka mempunyai kedua-dua geeky dan sampingan yang sejuk. Tetapi ia menunjukkan sisi yang berbeza personaliti anda yang membentuk sambungan yang benar-benar cepat. Dan sambungan yang menarik, membawa kepada seks.Beri dia gambar yang luas antara kehidupan dan sejarah andaJadi di sini adalah perkara. Kadang-kadang, anda boleh bertemu dengan seorang gadis dan mengadakan hubungan seks di bilik mandi kelab atau dalam alleyway dalam masa 10 minit. Kadang-kadang anda boleh bertemu seorang gadis walaupun rakan-rakan, dan hanya membentuk super cepat, tarikan terutamanya fizikal antara satu sama lain, dan mengoyak pakaian antara satu sama lain kira dalam setengah jam.  
Kadang-kadang seorang gadis hanya suka perasaan anda lucu, rasa fesyen, dan keyakinan, dan akan dengan anda anda dalam masa satu jam tanpa mengetahui nama kedua anda.Ini semua berlaku. Dan lebih kerap daripada yang anda fikirkan. 
Tetapi di sini adalah masalah: interaksi yang paling romantis dan seksual, jangan pergi seperti ini. Ini adalah pengecualian, bukan peraturan. Tetapi bagi lelaki banyak belajar untuk menjadi lebih menarik kepada jantina yang lebih cerah, mereka terkeliru oleh pengecualian, dan entah bagaimana berfikir itu daripada seorang gadis sebenarnya tidak perlu tahu apa-apa tentang lelaki itu sebelum mereka boleh mendapatkan turun dan kotor. Mereka fikir mereka perlu menarik, dan itulah semua yang diperlukan.

Kebanyakan masa, ini tidak bagaimana ia berfungsi (rumah kebenaran mengecewakan, bukan!). Gadis A biasanya perlu tahu jumlah asas perkara tentang anda sebelum dia akan tidur dengan anda, dan pasti perlu tahu jumlah ini asas perkara tentang anda sebelum masuk ke dalam hubungan dengan anda.

Walau bagaimanapun, bagi saya untuk mengajar ini, mengukur dengan tepat apa yang perempuan perlu tahu tentang anda sebelum dia mahu menjadi dengan anda adalah mustahil, sebagai perkara yang dia perlu tahu adalah berbeza dengan setiap gadis. Mengapa? Kerana ia adalah semua tentang vibe dia rasa daripada anda. Percayalah, seorang gadis tidak akan melalui senarai semak mental di dalam hatinya berkata "hmm, dia benar-benar menarik, tetapi dia tidak memberitahu saya adik-beradik beliau nama tengah lagi. Saya tidak tahu bahawa banyak mengenai beliau. Saya akan bertahan untuk sedikit lagi sebelum aku membiarkan dia mencium saya. "Tidak, tidak, tidak, tidak, tidak, tidak ... Serius, perempuan tidak berfikir seperti itu. Tetapi mereka fikir "Saya tidak berasa seperti saya sebenarnya tahu dia lagi."

Jadi di sini adalah senarai kasar apa yang anda perlukan untuk bekerja ke dalam perbualan pada satu titik atau yang lain supaya seorang gadis tahu anda.  

Seperti yang saya telah berkata, ini tidak merupakan senarai yang tepat, kerana setiap gadis adalah berbeza. Tetapi di sini adalah panduan bagi perkara-perkara yang kebanyakan perempuan akan perlu tahu sebelum mereka akan bersama anda:

1. Anda nama
2. Apa pekerjaan anda, dan adakah anda suka kerja anda
3. Berapa lama anda telah hidup di mana anda kini hidup. Jika anda tinggal sebelum ini.
4. Adakah anda mempunyai adik-beradik, dan apa yang mereka suka
5. Apa yang anda lakukan dalam masa lapang anda / hobi / sukan
6. Apakah hubungan anda dengan keluarga anda seperti
7. Apakah rakan-rakan anda seperti
8. Apakah hubungan anda yang terdahulu seperti

Mula menyentuh awal, terus menyentuh seluruhIni adalah satu situasi yang besar and penting. Jika anda mahu dengan seorang gadis, anda perlu untuk mendapatkan beliau digunakan untuk sentuhan anda. Saya telah tidur dengan banyak gadis-gadis, dan saya tidak pernah dalam situasi yang saya bercakap dia ke katil tanpa menyentuhnya pertama.Ingat kita bercakap mengenai sedikit tengah interaksi di sini - biasanya anda telah bercakap untuk satu atau dua jam, atau anda berada dalam beberapa tarikh pertama. Jadi, anda kini perlu mula memanjangkan sentuhan. Tinggalkan tangan anda pada kakinya sambil anda bercakap kepada beliau. Seperti yang anda berjalan perlahan-lahan membimbing beliau dengan tangan di belakang beliau. Bergantung kepada gadis itu, memegang tangannya (yang satu ini sebenarnya adalah risiko yang sangat tinggi - tetapi cuba anyway, dan jika dia tidak ke dalam ia tidak memohon maaf, hanya menjalankan seolah-olah ia tidak berlaku). Cari sebab untuk menyentuhnya. Jika dia membuang tangan anda atau shrugs anda di luar, tunggu beberapa minit, dan cuba lagi. Jangan membuat masalah besar daripada itu. 

Lisan yang semakin meningkat
Ia adalah mustahil untuk mengambil perbualan yang sangat seksual tanpa sebenarnya lisan yang semakin meningkat. Walau bagaimanapun peningkatan secara lisan adalah satu cara yang dijamin untuk menghidupkan perbualan kotor. Dengan lisan yang semakin meningkat, saya maksudkan memberitahu beliau bahawa anda mendapati beliau menarik, bahawa anda mencari beliau seksi, dan membenarkan ucapan anda untuk mendapatkan kotor dan kotor. Ini boleh menjadi emas, tetapi juga boleh menjadi terlalu banyak bagi sesetengah perempuan. Tambahan pula, kadang-kadang anda tidak memerlukannya, dan ia tidak harus dilakukan di hadapan rakan-rakannya. Saya akan meliputi ini secara terperinci dalam beberapa minggu, tetapi untuk sekarang, cuba menjatuhkan dalam pujian yang semakin seksual sepanjang tarikh. Mula dengan "Anda kelihatan benar-benar seksi malam ini", dan pergi dari situ.

3 Changes to get a Girl

So the question is: What does it take to get a girl? I am sure there must be changes that I need to do with myself? 
Well...yes you are right...take a good look at the mirror. But before you start to analyse yourself, I would be happy to present a list to you to check out for your conveneice! 

The following are common things guys need to work on to get a girl. Interestingly, just doing these 3 things well, will make you over 440% more effective at meeting the hottest, most intelligent, sexiest women. And that is a real statistic.

1. Eye contact and facial expression

 

Everyone has heard that you need to keep good eye contact. However few people know what this actually means. There are lots of different types of eye contact, only some of which are attractive. You will look at a hot girl differently to how you would look at your gran… at least, I really hope you would.
I’ll cover the different expressions which are more or less attractive another time, but there is one absolutly killer expression which is the most commonly unpractised by guys still improving with women.
This is the “sexual look”. This is a slight smirk (but good natured), a half smile, combined with very strong eye contact. Watch the film Top Gun – when Tom Cruise is leaning against the wall staring at Kelly Mcgillis at her house, it’s that look. It’s a look that says “I know you want me, but you can’t quite have me yet!”. Blink less. Make your movements slow, like you are underwater. In this expression, it is almost a staring competition. And when you do blink, blink s-l-o-w-l-y. (note – use common sense, this will be creepy if it is held forever. Hold it until it *just* becomes uncomfortable, then break it off). Get a mirror and make sure you can make this expression. Stare yourself down in the mirror. Play around with this and see how it makes an interaction sexual. Buy Top Gun and watch it several times.

2. Leading

If you learn to lead, you will be a great ladies man. Seriously, it’s that simple. Just learning this would make you great. So what is leading, and how do you learn it? Well for once I don’t have a book to reccomend for this. Leading is exactly what you think it is – you deciding to do something, and convincing other people to go along with what you decided (easy right?). How do you learn it? Start by becoming certain. Be certain of yourself. Become certain in your desisions and your opinions. Don’t doubt yourself. Second, learn to decided quickly, and stick with your own desisions. Voice your decisions quickly. Thirdly, convince other people your way is the best choice FOR THEM. Be certain in this. And lastly, be prepared to do your decision on your own if no-one or only a few people follow you.

3. Taking Chances

 

Actually this is very similar to point 2, as taking chances could be argued to be a form of leading. But who gives a fuck if it can be argued philosophically? Dating does, and always will, have an element of a numbers game to it. Anyone who tells you differently is trying to sell you something. It is impossible to get every girl, and therefore there will always be an element of a numbers game involved in dating. That this works for both sexes too. Even Megan Fox can’t get every guy. Doesn’t that make you feel better about yourself! Therefore, because it will always be a nubers game, you will have to take chances in approaching lots of girls, to find the girls that are intersted in you. You have to take chances in going for the phone number. You have to take chances introducing yourself to her friends. You have to take chances inviting her out. You have to take chances going for a kiss. You have to take chances taking her home. You have to take chances trying to take her clothes off. You are the man, and therefore YOU have to lead. And this means taking the chance, even if it means getting rejected. That is the nature of the game. There are loads of ways to tip the odds of  in your favour, but in the end you’re still taking a chance. But taking that chance might well lead to gloryous times.

And lets be honest – not taking that chance, means you go home kicking yourself for the next 3 weeks. Rejection hurts very little. Regret hurts very much.

Do these 3 things, you will skyrocket your success with the hottest women. THIS is how to get a girl. Don’t do these things, and you stay lonely and celibate. Your choice. Oh and by the way, 440% is obviously not a real statistic
 Enjoy your day.

How to never run out of things to say?

How to never run out of things to say? In Brief: speak about anything, but speak about it with excitement and passion. What you say will be interesting, and you will captivate whoever is listening.

How to never run out of things to say In detail: Words are both really important, and not very important. They are not very important in that they are a tiny part of being attractive – everyone has heard that communication is 93% body language and voice tone, and only 7% the words you say. In my experience, that’s true. The words you say aren’t that important.

However in truth, that 7% can be the tipping point between not being attractive, and being really attractive. It can be the final straw, if you like.

And there lies the problem for too many guys. You bore the girl, her attraction drops and you loose her. Running out of things to say is one of the most common problems I hear all the time. So what do loads of guy do? They try to cover it up with memorising fun games and routines so they have a ready made stock of things to say to a pretty lady. They try to cover up their lack of good social skills with hours of preparation instead. This strategy unanimously falls short of it’s goals. Because at some point, you always run out of memorized material, and you then look even more awkward.

But the actual content of the words you are saying is important too. Obviously talking to a girl about the weather for hours isn’t going to work. She isn’t going to be interested in you talking about sport, is she? And god forbid you talk about that interesting drink you saw her drinking earlier. None of these will work. Obviously.

Or will they?

You see, the solution to never running out of things to say, is to do this. The solution to running out of things to say, is to say whatever comes to your mind – no matter how random the thing you think of is. Jump around topics. It’s fine. But like I said earlier, years of experience have shown most guys that this leads to boring and/or weird conversations. It leads to us seeming boring, and loosing the hottie in front of us.

Well here’s the secret. Be interested and excited about the random stuff you are talking about, and put some creativity into your language.

So don’t say “I love your red shoes”, say “Say I love your red shoes, they look amazing”.

Or make it more creative. “I love your red shoes. They’re so bright. If you put little blue LEDs on them, they could be like mini fire engines!”

I’m sure you’ll agree, the above examples sound pretty dumb. But the secret is the passion in your voice, the excitement. How much passion and excitement? Depends on the energy of the venue. If you are in a coffee shop on a date, then not too much. If you are in a loud dance club, loads. Pile that excitement on in spades.

This is how to be interesting. Be excited and passionate. Talk about any random shit. Believe you are interesting.

And get the girl.

Enjoy.

Good posture is attractive! The correct body posture is healthy as well attractive! Use your body to be a powerful magnet!

Wow, oh wow! Readers..you are going to be educated today! This guy had made a list on postures that focus on body language (which is important for men) into easy read pointers so that you and me can understand in plain and simple, not to mention easy ways!

Body language is a big and important topic. It’s important because it is one of the easiest ways to create attraction. It is also important as it can kill attraction very quickly if you start slacking on it. This is this is one of the hardest topics to teach without a video – so I’ll probably put together a video at some point.

Today I’m just going to do a quick post about posture – i.e. your body language when you’re standing still. This is important because good posture is attractive. However a key to good posture being attractive is that it must look like naturally good posture. If it looks like you are forcing the posture, then you are working harder than the girl, and are therefore going to look less attractive to her. Also no one likes a stiff, so loosen the fuck up man
Anyway, onto the specifics. And if you are thinking this is a really basic article, then yeah, you’re right. We’ll get to the specifics in time, don’t you worry. But do take this seriously – it is one of the ways to make yourself instantly much more attractive, so if you have bad posture, start work on this right now!

The bullet points of posture

• Your chin should be parallel with ground, not slanted down like a lot of guys do these days. This looking down at the ground tends to go hand in hand with the inability to make steady eye contact, another absolute key to attraction.
• If you are talking to someone, make eye contact. If you are not, look far out in front of you. If you are walking, keep your head held high, don’t look at the ground (unless the ground is uneven or you are on a rocky mountain pass or some shit…. then obviously look where you need to look). But don’t look down, look forward. Think of looking towards the horizon.
• Lift your chest up. Imagine there is a cord tied around your breast bone (proper name the sternum, if you are interested) and it is pulling up towards the ceiling. Lift your chest.
• At the same time as lifting your chest, pull your shoulders back and down, and then relax them. A good trick for this is to roll your shoulders back, then squeeze them up towards your ears but try to keep them as far backwards as well as squeezing them up (so you are squeezing them up and back at the same time). Then totally relax them and they will naturally sit further back. Magic.
• Start doing core exercises and large multi joint exercises in the gym (i.e. bench press, squats, rows, pull downs, shoulder press, leg raises, planks etc.). These will not only help you get really fit, but will also start helping pull your joints into the right places naturally.
• Start stretching regularly. If you do a desk job, pick up a copy of Stretching by Bob Anderson; and start working on the stretches to loosen out the muscles that will have naturally got tight from sitting for hours doing work. Pay paticualar attention to your shoulders being forward, your back tight and rounded from the slouching, and your neck being tight.
• Let your arms hang at your sides. Consciously remove all tension from your arms and let them hang. Have your hands open and relaxed, or touch your middle finger to your thumb to help stop fidgeting.
• Have you feet shoulder width apart or slightly wider, and point your feet forwards.
• Every day for a week, do a wall stand to help build muscle memory for your posture. Stand with your heels, bum, back of shoulders, and back of head against the wall. Stand there for one minute. This is what it feels like to stand straight. If it feels weird, then you stoop and have bad body language. Fix it as a matter of priority. Try and remember how it feels, and fix your posture every time you notice it is bad throughout your day.
• Learn to be still and don’t fidget
• Lastly, consciously relax all your muscles as much as possible, without losing posture.

Recommended resources for this include the Alexander Technique, which is specifically focused on improving posture. Whether you check out Alexander Technique or not, fixing your posture should be high on your too doo list. Not only will it make you more attractive, it will make you seem more high status, which will carry over into your interactions at work and in your general social life. Much more importantly than any of these other things, it also will help you avoid a million back problems in later life. Reason enough to work on this? I think so too.